The lack of humility and trust are some of the things that hurt men the most, in it. Today we tell you
It is difficult to talk about the feelings of men. They are seen as strong, manly and without giving importance to the little things in a relationship. Taboo topics for them that are great unknown to us. Today, in Ella Hoy, we reveal the things that hurt men the most and that they never dare to tell us. Do not lose detail that there are some very simple to solve.
What hurts the most for men
Love, that wished and hated feeling that becomes the object of study of science to try to understand it. And once again it seems that it makes advances and brings to light hidden mysteries. This time we talk about how they feel and what bothers them most in a relationship:
Research from the University of Nottingham reveals that men feel anxious about women who are too independent. You work, you contribute money at home, you have initiative. Everything is perfect and they value it. But it’s the little things like never letting them pay the restaurant bill or feeling that they are not useful as men, which make their world falter. So you know, chivalry does not hurt anyone and it does a lot of good.
Problems at work
If you notice your weird guy and you do not know what is happening to him, he is probably uncomfortable in his work. One of the things that most hurts a boy is seeing himself in a work environment that does not fill him enough or in which he has no chance of improving.
To this is added the economic instability: lack of income, little savings … It is another issue that usually takes away your sleep. If you see that this is what your boy is worried about, try to cheer him up without removing the subject. As you well know, most of them find it hard to talk about the issues that affect them.
That you do not realize your effort
Normally, we are the ones who demand the most in a relationship. We try to make everything perfect and sometimes we do not value the efforts our partner makes to try to please us. Something that we must take more into account so that they feel loved and valued.
Make them empty
This is very easy to avoid and is something they can not stand. She is in a bar with your boy and you meet with colleagues at work, you talk to them without introducing your boyfriend … If you think about it well it is something that would bother us a lot.
Leave him alone
He probably would not admit it, but if you leave him alone on a birthday, a dinner with his family or any other event, he will feel abandoned. So if you do not have a good excuse, play the role of a good girlfriend even if you do not like the appointment. They also do it for us!
Unless he asks you, it is better not to comment on his wardrobe, tastes, family, friends, and others. And if he asked you, do it always in a soft and subtle way. That you do not like how you saw lately? Try saying something positive: “How handsome are you when you wear a shirt …”
Questions type “where have you been?”, “Why are you so late?” They make them feel that you do not trust. It is good that you ask him about his day and where he has been when leaving work, but in a friendly and non-recriminating tone.
Many times we are more proud of what we think and it costs us to apologize when we have been wrong in something. This is something that also hurts them, the times when we do not know or do not want to ask for forgiveness. Usually, in this aspect, they are more sensitive and have no problem recognizing their mistakes.
As you can see they are easy things to solve to try to avoid hurting the man we love. Would you add something else?